Enduring In Hardship
Introduction
When life gets hard and our circumstances are overwhelming, we face the temptation to be discouraged or to give in. However, Scripture describes the Christian life as full of hardships. Christ’s followers knew and taught “…that through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God” (Acts 14:22). Our experiences are used by God to develop us and grow us in fruitfulness. This intro study is designed to provide a framework for further study of this broad and complex topic.
We experience hardship and suffering for a number of different reasons, each calling for a unique response. Four broad reasons are:
- Reaping what we have sown. If we rob a bank, we reap jail. If we are sexually immoral, we reap STD’s, unplanned pregnancy, divorce, broken trust, and many other consequences.
- Chastisement. God chastises those He loves. Example: David succumbed to temptation with Bathsheba and was severely chastised, even though he was God’s chosen and a man after God’s own heart. Through the prophet Nathan, God’s chastisement was severe but led to repentance and a radically changed life.
- Spiritual warfare. The enemy and his agents attack God’s people. Examples include Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness and Nehemiah’s challenges while building the wall.
- We live in a fallen world that bears the marks of sin’s corrupting influence. Car accidents happen; the physical body breaks down; kids stray; people betray others; wars and their widespread consequences occur.
In each of these, or a combination of two or more, God is present with His grace and mercy for the person who calls upon Him in trials and for His own divine and eternal purposes.
We are encouraged to endure these hardships as we come to share in Christ’s holiness and righteousness. Paul reported that the experience of suffering and hardship was an invaluable means of knowing Christ more deeply. “That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and may share in His sufferings, becoming like Him in His death” (Philippians 3:10). Hardships will occur; how we endure, overcome, and grow through them is the question before a disciple of Christ. We are comforted that although we endure suffering and even God’s chastisement and discipline, we have the promise that “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1).
Scripture references
Study the following biblical references and consider how they address the questions listed below. If using this outline with a small group, consider assigning different Scriptures to different individuals and relating them to one or more of the questions. Then scroll down the page to review our recommended resources for the topic of Enduring in Hardships and consider how the various articles or podcasts provide further insights relating to this topic. Also consider other resources you have been exposed to and might recommend to others. We value your feedback.
Romans 5:1-5; Colossians 3:12-17; 2 Timothy 2:1-3; Hebrews 5:7–10; Hebrews 10:18; Hebrews 12:4-11; James 1:2-4
Questions
- What should be our outlook on the hardships that we encounter in our lives?
- Recount a time of hardship that resulted in a positive effect.
- How might we discern the source of the suffering and/or hardship? How might our response differ depending on the source?
- The actions of others (relatives, peers, friends, a boss) sometimes cause negative circumstances for us, oftentimes unintentionally. What should be our response?
- What should we do when hurt by the intentional words of others?
- How might we help others who are enduring hardships?
Recommended Resources
Following are a series of carefully selected resources that provide perspectives and experiences of various authors, most having military experience. These articles and podcasts are intended to stimulate further thinking and reflective application for individuals or to act as the basis of discussion in small groups.
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Chris Thompson, Gold Star Mother: “God wants you to keep on living”
Chris shares her story of military life at the intersection of faith, family, and profession...Read More -
Crushing the Idols of Identity
We can know pure joy in our struggles when we allow God to do His...Read More -
53. Carlos and Sara Estevez: Purpose and perspective in the face of tragedy
Have you ever been invited to do something only to wonder…why did I agree to...Read More -
41. Michelle Qureshi: Incredible hope amidst suffering
Michelle Qureshi's story of military life at the intersection of faith, family, and profession is...Read More -
40. You Are Your Brother’s Keeper
November 23, 2014. Does that date ring any bells for you? For my guest this...Read More -
A difficult story of God’s goodness | Episode 33
Today, you’re going to hear from Major Tim and Kimberly Tormey, USMC (Ret.), as they...Read More -
Indivisible, the story of Darren and Heather Turner | Episode 28
CH Darren and Heather Turner share the details of their struggles surrounding deployment individually, spiritually,...Read More -
The Scars of Moral Injury | Episode 014
Former OCF director of field operations LTC Tom Schmidt, US Army (Ret.), sat down with...Read More -
Allow God to heal the hidden wounds
We leaders often cope with stress by trying to survive our wounding rather than allow...Read More -
Welcome to the Desert
The Lord has brought you to this place for His purpose, and He will not...Read More -
The Challenge of Distress
Life is full of disappointments, difficulties, and distress. It comes in many ways: relational conflicts,...Read More
All resources in this topic
- 40. You Are Your Brother’s Keeper
- 41. Michelle Qureshi: Incredible hope amidst suffering
- 53. Carlos and Sara Estevez: Purpose and perspective in the face of tragedy
- A difficult story of God’s goodness | Episode 33
- A Salve for the Scars
- Allow God to heal the hidden wounds
- Amanda Yashack, part 1: “That morning at PT something inside me just completely broke.”
- Chris Thompson, Gold Star Mother: “God wants you to keep on living”
- Crushing the Idols of Identity
- God, are you with me?
- God’s restoration for the wounded soldier, healing warrior
- Hope does not disappoint us
- Indivisible, the story of Darren and Heather Turner | Episode 28
- Karis and Ben Meier: “God really opened my heart through what I’ve suffered”
- Question Authority
- Strong to the Finish
- The Challenge of Distress
- The Scars of Moral Injury | Episode 014
- Walking
- Welcome to the Desert