There are two elements critical to our healing: resiliency and identity. Resiliency is the ability to bounce back and recover from setbacks. One identity is a patriotic, loyal, and courageous warrior. A more important identity, however, is as a person of faith—and mine is as a committed, faithful Christian. True Christian identity is reflected in these truths: we are all guilty sinners, deserving of punishment for those sins; Jesus Christ died for us, paying our sin debt; and He offers us the gift of salvation only received through personally accepting Him as Savior.
Since warfare in and of itself is ultimately the warfare of our soul and spirit, we have the choice of allowing our healing to proceed through our spiritual maturation instead of succumbing to substance abuse to mask problems. Ultimately our ability to be healed, or at least cope with our issues, is based upon spiritual healing.
Forgiveness—forgiving ourselves and others—for mistakes encountered in “the fog of war” is one of the most important things we must do. We must not harbor bitterness, anger or unforgiveness to all others whose actions impacted our lives. The chance for healing cannot happen unless we recall the issues from our military service that continue to burden us. We all have sins in our lives and unless we ask forgiveness for sins through confession, we will not have our decks cleared to receive God’s forgiveness and begin the opportunity for spiritual healing. As Matthew 6:14-15 declares, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”
A method I use for the healing process is to audit three arenas of my life: unhealed hurts, unmet needs, unresolved issues—evident in all lives, but especially to those of us who have been to war. Once listed, in another column I list what it would take to heal the hurts, meet the needs and resolve the issues. Column three is simply praying that column two is satisfied.
Jesus allowed me to be saved from my battlefield wounds—alive only by the grace of God—and return to live my life again. I now know He was always there, remaining with me through all my recovery and rehabilitation that continues even today. I seek to follow Him in all ways and over the years have grown in my faith, and also in height—5’8” to 6’2”—with new artificial legs!
My peace and hope is found in Jesus Christ, whose offer of forgiveness from sin and the gift of eternal life is for anyone who will trust in Him: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
Receive the salvation and peace Jesus offers you today by asking Him through prayer:
Dear Jesus, I know that I am a sinner and need Your forgiveness. I believe that You died on the cross to pay the penalty for my sin, and that You rose from the dead to give me the gift of eternal life. I now trust in You as my Savior.